Eight Steps to Finding Love – The 2009 Dating Plan
New Year’s Eve is coming fast. You’ll blow the horns, make a few toasts and get streamers in your hair. It’ll be another New Year’s Party with no one you really want to kiss at midnight. No love to share it all with. Looking forward to that?
Well, you can change your love life by following a whole new dating plan for this coming year. You can make a resolution right now, right here as you read this article to find new love. At this moment your chances of meeting the love of your life could be better than ever! The average marriage now lasts under seven years and this means new singles are coming on the scene all the time. In fact, around sixteen million people are now using online dating in the U.S. You have a lot of partners to choose from.
So go on, make the affirmation. Something like, I create a new love that is just right for me. Here is an eight-step love advice action plan that can make your resolution a reality in 2009:
1. Prioritize Finding Love
Imagine if you didn’t have a job and needed money-looking for one would be your absolute top priority. You would spend hours posting and searching sites like monster.com; scanning the want ads; calling recruiters; asking your friends; and jumping on any leads.
In contrast, despite being alone, finding love ranks pretty low on your to do list. You come home from work, run errands, answer some emails, call your friends, play with the dog, watch your favorite show, and maybe spend 15 minutes browsing your online dating site. Most of you are better at planning your weekend or vacation than planning your dating life. If you are truthful with yourself, the activities associated with creating a relationship are nowhere near the top of your priority list.
Yet study after study has shown that relationships are treasured above all else when we reflect on what has meant the most in our lives. So make finding love a top priority.
2. Have A ‘New You’ Party
Order a bunch of pizzas or something simple like Chinese food. Invite all your friends to come over for a ‘New You’ party where they give you a ‘makeover.’ Have them go through your clothes and accessories, getting rid of unflattering stuff and putting together some hot new looks for you. Ask them for referrals to great hair salons or clothing shops. Find a look that makes you feel great.
Don’t feel like you are imposing-there is usually nothing that your friends like more than giving you advice! Of course, tell them you are looking to meet someone special and to keep you in mind. Email the same message to any other buddies who did not make the party.
3. Work Your Online Dating Program
Throw out your old photo and profile. Have a friend who is a good photographer, make that a great photographer, take 100 headshots of you in order to get one that looks especially warm, attractive and inviting. Get some opposite-sex friends to help you pick out the best photo and work on your profile. After you post them spend at least three hours a week looking around the site, sending and responding to messages and connecting by phone and in person with people. Block out time in your daily calendar to work the program.
4. Go Where the Odds are Better
Sign up for two on-going classes/activities that interest you that have lots of potential partners in them-for example: finance, investing and leadership at your local college’s School of Continuing and Professional Studies; rock-climbing and golfing; snowboarding/skiing; hiking; and wine tasting are great for meeting men. Women are plentiful at cooking, growth, spirituality or yoga courses. Coed city sports teams are great and usually have an even mix of genders. There are many other activities, classes and clubs to consider so search online on any topic plus the name of a major city near you. Or go to www.meetup.com and peruse their groups. Also, if you’re so inclined, look into volunteering for a local or national political group.
5. Meet New People
Find and say hello to three new men or women every day. Assuming you are in a safe or public place, make eye contact, smile, say ‘Hi,’ or ask for some help. This is what I call the Marcia Cross Technique. Actress Marcia Cross was in her forties when she met her husband by chatting with him in a flower shop. She now is the ecstatic mother of twin baby girls.
If you don’t encounter a lot of men or women in your daily routine, make sure to try a new grocery store, dry cleaners, pharmacy or coffee/sandwich shop at lunch. You can start with saying hello to the less threatening types and work your way up to the ones who are “out of your league.” You will be surprised how receptive the hotties can be!
6. Date Against Type
Most people do not find love with the type of person they imagine for themselves. The guy who only wants a petite blonde winds up with a brainy brunette. The woman who dates starving artists marries a rich, balding lawyer. Look at photos and profiles that you would ordinarily take a quick pass on. If you always go for the sleek metrosexual, give the Midwesterner who just moved to your town a try. If you go for the hotties, try someone who is has a heart of gold and maybe only a B+ on looks. Try and experiment. You may be very happily surprised!
7. Go For A Second Date
Even if you are not exactly blown away by a person at the first date, remember to stay open. You cannot know what secret goodies are hidden in someone just by meeting them once. You have to let a potential partner unfold and show you his/her different sides. If there is any connection with this person at all, give it another chance. Love almost always comes in a surprise package.
8. Open The Door
If you do meet someone and have a really good time, send a quick text or email the next morning to let the person know that the door is open to getting together again. This is especially important for women to do. Write something specific about the date that points to the connection between the two of you or refers to something you both loved. For example, if you went to a comedy show, write a message that refers to a particular joke you both enjoyed and add, “Let’s do it again sometime.”
Now you have your love resolution and plan. Most importantly commit to the first step and make this work Priority One in your life. Then follow the recommended program to create the love you want in the coming year. Chances are, by next New Year’s Eve you’ll be kissing the one you want. For the latest research on creating love that is just right for you read my new book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love.
Dr. Diana Kirschner
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Offline Promotion – The Other Source for Potential Customers
It is often quite easy for the Web business owner to overlook
the importance of offline promotion. In reality, all your
potential customers live offline. They work in the community,
shop at the neighborhood supermarkets, attend various places of
worship, read newspapers, watch television, visit the doctor and
are members of various organizations.
Each of these facts is an opportunity to promote your Web site
in the real world, and by routinely combining offline methods
with your online promotions, you will effectively extend your
reach in the virtual marketplace.
Here are 11 simple ways you can do that:
1. Word of Mouth – This is obviously the most cost
effective and powerful way to let people know about your Web
business. It may also be the most under-utilized, which is
ironic since the majority of your site’s content is made up of
words anyway. Use every opportunity to talk about your Web site
to friends and family. Make it a point everyday to tell six
strangers about your business. The impact of this publicity will
astound you.
2. Stationery – Include your Web address on all your
business stationery, especially business cards and
letterhead.
3. Fliers – A simple flier announcing a special offer and
displaying your URL can be put together for next to nothing. You
can give these out at community events, distribute door to door
or ask permission to place them in businesses in your
neighborhood.
4. Brochures – A well-prepared brochure is a convenient
tool for presenting an overview of your business and
highlighting your product or service benefits. They can be
handed out or mailed in response to requests for more
information.
5. Community Boards – Many supermarkets, diners,
restaurants, laundromats, bookstores, and local businesses have
a section on their premises where you may place your business
cards, fliers, brochures and announcements.
6. Promotional Items – The familiar and ubiquitous
promotional coffee mug, key chain, pen, magnet, calendar, tee
shirt and baseball cap, are excellent items to display your
company logo or Web address. You can sponsor an event for a
community organization or little league club and give these
items away. Your business will always be associated with the
event.
7. Card Exchanges – Very often, local business
organizations and Chambers of Commerce will sponsor events where
business owners can display their products and network with each
other. These are great opportunities to establish contacts and
develop sound professional relationships.
8. Press Releases – Put together a one- or two-page
document with news about your company’s new product or service,
and send it off to the editor of your local newspaper, radio and
television station. Editors are always looking for something
news worthy to feature. This could result in a newspaper
article, a radio interview or a television appearance. The
exposure is good for business.
9. Newsletters – If you offer an online newsletter,
consider printing copies of it and getting permission to leave a
few in your doctor’s or dentist’s waiting rooms. You could place
some on community boards in your town and try a few of the
methods mentioned above to distribute it.
10. Bulletins – Many places of worship circulate a
bulletin at their services that includes inexpensive
advertising. Consider placing a classified or small display ad
for an extended period in such a publication.
11. Answering Machine – Program your answering machine
message to mention a new product or special discount and invite
the caller to visit your Web site for more information.
This is by no means an exhaustive list of offline promotion
choices. The opportunities are only limited by your
imagination.
Many of the above strategies require little or no money, and can
be executed as you go about your daily routine. The exposure you
gain could be worth the time and effort many times over.
If you want to expose your business to the widest possible
audience, you must vigorously and consistently promote it online
as well as offline. Effective promotion is to your business,
what the wind is to a sailboat. You wouldn’t make much progress
without it.
Hermas Haynes
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Win the War of Internet Marketing!
As early as the 1970s it was not uncommon to hear radio advertisements that simply mentioned a product or brand name and suggested consumers consider the purchase of a new model. Very little creativity, just the mention of the name. It worked.
Radio stations at that time felt that having a radio signal was a license to print money. Businesses flocked to radio and other forms of media to capture the market in advertising. It worked.
Fast-forward to the 21st century and you’ll find that era is no more. Radio is rarely afforded easy advertising dollars and marketing is about more than name alone. Brand loyalty is almost non-existent. It’s all about, “What have you done for me lately?” For more details visit to www.mrx-interview.com .If the answer is, “Not much,” you can expect former customers to use their internal GPS to locate new and greener pastures. Marketing strategies need to be reevaluated.
The mere mention of a brand name may draw a “So what” expression from most consumers. There are those flavor of the month brands that draw some buzz, but most businesses are finding they need to replace models quickly and dream faster than their customers who get bored with the latest device or product.
No, it may not be fair. Yes, it might have been easier to simply choose a brand and stick with it, but that’s not the way the game is played in this new millennium. What to do?
Well, you could lament this unfair dynamic or you can learn an entirely new set of rules when it comes to Internet marketing.
Advertising choices are no longer simply those associated with traditional media. Business has the opportunity to consider a variety of online media advertising solutions.
Consumers demand that businesses go out of their way to earn business. Services who use an online environment often bid for the right to provide service. The idea of monopoly in business is virtually non-existent. For more information logon to www.the-forum-list.com .Is it sensible to sit at the local coffee shop and lament the passing of good old days or does it make more sense to get back in the ring and go a full fifteen rounds? This is a fight for your future, a fight for your business – and it’s a fight you can win.
Mentioning your product name is not enough to instill trust and product acceptance. You need to go the extra mile. Create an environment that teaches the consumer why they need your product. Provide content that helps them learn how to use it. Give them additional content that allows them to envision what life would be like if they choose to use your product. Make purchase convenient. Insist on exceptional customer service. Do more than you have to and make that your personal gold standard in business.
In some ways the business environment in this century is harder than it’s ever been, yet in an online environment you open your business up to more potential consumers than you can imagine. Your extra work in marketing is simply a profound investment in enormous success. In almost every case you can imagine it is exceptional marketing online that spurs exceptional sales growth.
Ram Babu
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